What’s the secret to successfully moving the needle toward becoming your highest self? Falling in love with the journey.

Here’s the secret to becoming your highest self.

Everyone aims to be their highest self, to get there, and I understand that, but it’s actually more about the journey than the destination. No one is perfect. No one will ever be there 100% of the time.

Want to know why? Because the destination, the definition of your highest self, is constantly changing. Once you reach one milestone, the destination changes. It’s all about the journey of becoming your highest self; that’s where real change occurs, that’s where the magic happens.

You’ll face challenges along the way, that’s inevitable. You can only step into being your highest self if you overcome. You can’t reach your highest self or become the version you need to be to get there without facing challenges. These challenges teach you vital things that you need to become who you were meant to become.

Without them, you’d never learn or know what you needed to in order to work towards your highest self. If you already knew them or they were easy, then you’d already be that person.

Why Romanticizing Your Highest Self Journey Matters

But why romanticize the journey?

The journey is hard, but it is also beautiful. If you spend all your time forcing things, pushing, fighting, doing and never just being, appreciating and loving, then you miss all the beautiful milestones. Because again, if there is no destination and you never stop to romanticize the journey of becoming your highest self, you’ll never get to the ‘enough’ point.

Love every moment of the journey; appreciate every part of your growth.

Take those videos and pictures to keep hold of the memories. Step back during the moment to simply observe and be wowed. Find joy in the small things, in nourishing yourself. Never stop learning, never stop growing.

Because it’s not about being strict and rigid and racing toward your goals. It’s about life itself. The point of your life was never to simply grow up, get a job, make money until you retire and then reach the end of your life. Life is about living.

It’s about living without all the overwhelm, the guilt, the shame, the anger, the fear. It’s about slowing down and being in the here and now. It’s about capturing the memory, the beauty of the current milestone, so you can look back and see not just how far you’ve come on your highest self journey, but also how incredible the ride was.

I mean, either way, life is happening.

It doesn’t stop until your time on Earth is finished. So, you may as well fill it with beautiful moments, growth, reprogramming, generational change and creating a legacy.

The flow of life is mandatory, but growth and change are not. Could you imagine refusing to grow and staying stagnant? Then reaching the end of your life and looking back and thinking, “Meh.”

You can either live in other people’s beautifully aesthetic reels and never move the needle forward, or you can be the creator of the reels and start learning and growing and changing things. Be the inspiration to others to start their journey towards becoming their highest self by doing it yourself.

Happy romanticizing!

Check out this reel on romanticizing your highest self journey!

You have the power to manifest all of your dreams.

It’s about taking the right steps and the right actions that move the needle forward in a realistic, life-giving way.

That’s why the Highest Self Academy was created as a membership with short techniques that help you heal and strive toward different goals. You can pick and choose what your journey needs and you only need a couple of minutes.